u know what u can do right Co?Captain_Obvious wrote:
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Dede and Pink, all I'm going to suggest is that you come back in a few days to re-read this thread and the smantie poll thread. Maybe then you'll realize how ridiculous some of the posts in them are.
For now, if you two would no longer like to be members of qoou, please ask to be removed from the memberlist, and I'll be more than happy to take care of your request. thx.
For now, if you two would no longer like to be members of qoou, please ask to be removed from the memberlist, and I'll be more than happy to take care of your request. thx.
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u still know what u can do right Co?Captain_Obvious wrote:Dede and Pink, all I'm going to suggest is that you come back in a few days to re-read this thread and the smantie poll thread. Maybe then you'll realize how ridiculous some of the posts in them are.
For now, if you two would no longer like to be members of qoou, please ask to be removed from the memberlist, and I'll be more than happy to take care of your request. thx.
day or not I'll be there:)
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If someone threatens to leave qoou. I'm not going to beg them to stay. If you feel you have a legitimate reason to leave then I would recommend leaving as de fault did. If you do not have a legitimate reason to leave then don't make threats to leave. If you have a complaint against a clan member etc. Attempt to post it in the private forums and address people like a mature human being.
That is all I ask.
Thanks.
That is all I ask.
Thanks.
fs Den I never one asked u 2 beg fs so pissoff with u and thats all I askDenial wrote:If someone threatens to leave qoou. I'm not going to beg them to stay. If you feel you have a legitimate reason to leave then I would recommend leaving as de fault did. If you do not have a legitimate reason to leave then don't make threats to leave. If you have a complaint against a clan member etc. Attempt to post it in the private forums and address people like a mature human being.
That is all I ask.
Thanks.
day or not I'll be there:)
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Dede this is getting out of hand. I appreciate all you're trying to do for me but it's gotten too personal now and I personally don't want to see you leave {qoou}. Whether or not you want to is of course your own decision, but everyone here likes you (no matter how troublesome you are ) and I'm sure {qoou} would be quite boring without you.
As for the way some people are treating you, I don't approve and you know it. I think SK's been very helpful as well as others, and of course there are certain others who have been what is commonly referred to as a "dickhead." As for guys taking over your thread... I too can't say you didn't see it happening. Guys are not into that sort of stuff typically and there are more guys than girls posting on these forums.
I know this thread isn't why you want to leave, but I'm going to ask you sincerely that instead of leaving you just take some time to relax a bit. I know from experience it works. Right now you're flaming your clanmates over their inaction SK has already told us he'll take appropriate action when the time comes. As for CO not taking action, he's put in a position where it's very difficult for him to. When certain things are close and divided it can be very difficult for someone to direct the issue clearly, as they want to make sure everyone is satisfied. That's understanding (although frustrating when you're one of the ones demanding results) when you think about it and I don't think anyone should hold it against him (much ). Then there's the issue of CO alledgedly comparing me to CraigMan. Personally, I think he should be sentenced to eternal fragging for that but I'm not fliiping out... much. And as for other people, that's just a matter we're all going to have to deal with. I'm sure it's not that bad.
Don't leave {qoou} and don't hold a grudge here, wait a week, give it some time and then let things settle down.
By the way... thanks for doing that with me guys!! Good Game! I had posted all my contact info and no one decides to contact me, rather just flip out. You can bet I felt extremely good about that, so let's refrain from doing so with anyone else.
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That all goes for pink too! OMFp :love:
As for the way some people are treating you, I don't approve and you know it. I think SK's been very helpful as well as others, and of course there are certain others who have been what is commonly referred to as a "dickhead." As for guys taking over your thread... I too can't say you didn't see it happening. Guys are not into that sort of stuff typically and there are more guys than girls posting on these forums.
I know this thread isn't why you want to leave, but I'm going to ask you sincerely that instead of leaving you just take some time to relax a bit. I know from experience it works. Right now you're flaming your clanmates over their inaction SK has already told us he'll take appropriate action when the time comes. As for CO not taking action, he's put in a position where it's very difficult for him to. When certain things are close and divided it can be very difficult for someone to direct the issue clearly, as they want to make sure everyone is satisfied. That's understanding (although frustrating when you're one of the ones demanding results) when you think about it and I don't think anyone should hold it against him (much ). Then there's the issue of CO alledgedly comparing me to CraigMan. Personally, I think he should be sentenced to eternal fragging for that but I'm not fliiping out... much. And as for other people, that's just a matter we're all going to have to deal with. I'm sure it's not that bad.
Don't leave {qoou} and don't hold a grudge here, wait a week, give it some time and then let things settle down.
If you have a complaint against a clan member etc. Attempt to post it in the private forums and address people like a mature human being.
By the way... thanks for doing that with me guys!! Good Game! I had posted all my contact info and no one decides to contact me, rather just flip out. You can bet I felt extremely good about that, so let's refrain from doing so with anyone else.
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That all goes for pink too! OMFp :love:
Go Alucard, go go Go!
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{qoou}Smantie | ~dzz~Batman! | [-L-]Smantz! | =[NWA]=Elif4zagg!n | [ADC]endgegnerrr | =[SveK]=Tensta! | A*Team|Hannibal
I'am SO sorry... I tried to help myself, but I cant... so here goes..
The story so far...
Pink and dede fall out with smantie..... Smantie gets kicked/left qoou..... Pink, dede and Smantie "make up"....... Smantie wants back in qoou... Pink and dede back him..... Then lots of "nice" things said etc........Pink and dede resign from qoou (pink resigns alot and shouts!! I live with her)....
I AM SO GOING TO GET SHIT THIS, BUT HEY ITS STILL FUN.
So.. what do adult women and children have in common??
EVERYTHING!!!!!!!! hahahahahahaha..........
PS I will need a new clan when dede see's this!!!!
The story so far...
Pink and dede fall out with smantie..... Smantie gets kicked/left qoou..... Pink, dede and Smantie "make up"....... Smantie wants back in qoou... Pink and dede back him..... Then lots of "nice" things said etc........Pink and dede resign from qoou (pink resigns alot and shouts!! I live with her)....
I AM SO GOING TO GET SHIT THIS, BUT HEY ITS STILL FUN.
So.. what do adult women and children have in common??
EVERYTHING!!!!!!!! hahahahahahaha..........
PS I will need a new clan when dede see's this!!!!
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I agree completely smantie, this has gotten way outta hand!
Dede i love you to bits and that wont change and i understand your frustrations! However...If you gonna leave then that is your choice, but as a friend i suggest you take up the issues with the people in question privately! Don't hate me!
I have my own issues which i will deal with, so don't delete me!
Please lock this topic now!
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Dede i love you to bits and that wont change and i understand your frustrations! However...If you gonna leave then that is your choice, but as a friend i suggest you take up the issues with the people in question privately! Don't hate me!
I have my own issues which i will deal with, so don't delete me!
Please lock this topic now!
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Join Vodka's new clan!! (I'm serious)PS I will need a new clan when dede see's this!!!!
Thanks for boosting my egothis is no longer about u smantie
Regarding what pink said: I think a lot of the issues are shared and need to be worked out in a kindly and open-minded way. Perhaps more than one person shares your concern. If you know someone who shares your feelings on something start an MSN conference and address the problem kindly, don't flame, and don't gang up on anyone. Problems have solutions, so let's give some time to have them solved.
Go Alucard, go go Go!
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{qoou}Smantie | ~dzz~Batman! | [-L-]Smantz! | =[NWA]=Elif4zagg!n | [ADC]endgegnerrr | =[SveK]=Tensta! | A*Team|Hannibal
Haha you're funny taz No sex for you for a week!taz... wrote:I'am SO sorry... I tried to help myself, but I cant... so here goes..
The story so far...
Pink and dede fall out with smantie..... Smantie gets kicked/left qoou..... Pink, dede and Smantie "make up"....... Smantie wants back in qoou... Pink and dede back him..... Then lots of "nice" things said etc........Pink and dede resign from qoou (pink resigns alot and shouts!! I live with her)....
I AM SO GOING TO GET SHIT THIS, BUT HEY ITS STILL FUN.
So.. what do adult women and children have in common??
EVERYTHING!!!!!!!! hahahahahahaha..........
PS I will need a new clan when dede see's this!!!!
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Smantie, I think when you read the poll thread for you, you'll see that my postition is that I like you, and would like you to be in qoou, but I'm concerned about any backlash we could see as a result.smantie wrote:Then there's the issue of CO alledgedly comparing me to CraigMan. Personally, I think he should be sentenced to eternal fragging for that but I'm not fliiping out... much. And as for other people, that's just a matter we're all going to have to deal with. I'm sure it's not that bad.
My only comparison between you and craigman, was that I like you both, but that qoou had problems that resulted in both of you leaving, and as a result we should think twice before we vote.
Here's my exact post:
Edited to add: This is a perfect example of a case of being damned if you do, and damned if you don't. The first time we let smantie in, people got pissed. The next time, I warned everyone that people might get pissed, and what do you know.... they got pissed about the warning.Captain_Obvious wrote:I don't think any (or at least many) people here don't like smantie. I think he's great. I just haven't decided if I want to risk any possible backlash involved with having him in qoou again.
It was the same deal with Craigman. I love the guy, but that doesn't mean I'm sure would be a good idea to have him back in qoou.
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I was on msn and xfire for 3 hours this morning. After that, it was bedtime. Just ask SK, he IMed me.dede wrote:ps I would've talked 2 Co on xfire or msn but he has been avoiding everyone like the black plague
Also keep in mind that this is my busiest time of the year, so of course I'm not going to be online as much as you'd like me to be. I was supposed to launch a new website a week ago, and I'm behind on lots of shit for the holidays. Believe it or not, it's not my full time job to try and handle qoou drama.... this shit comes 2nd.
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Captain_Obvious wrote:For now, if you two would no longer like to be members of qoou, please ask to be removed from the memberlist, and I'll be more than happy to take care of your request. thx.
Ok dede, I don't delete accounts, but I will take that as a request to be removed from the qoou memberlist. If you ever want back in, just let us know.dede wrote:pls delete my account as I wont be back...I'll also be doing the samething De did
Pink what about you?
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